As a result, it is important to be certain to not over share with your friend with benefits if you’re looking to avoid catching feelings for them.
Don’t Invite Them on Dates
When you’re engaging in a friend with benefits type partnership, the majority of the time you’ll likely be meeting at one another’s homes or wherever your hookups tend to take place. In these types of partnerships, it is common for the other person to come over for a hookup and then immediately leave when you’re finished. Thus, don’t ask the other person to go on romantic dates with you beforehand, like fancy dinners or to a movie.
Remind yourself that you’re not trying to get to know the other person with the purpose of pursuing a relationship. You’re in it for the physical side of things only. Thus, don’t try to add romance to your hookups, as you’ll be running the risk of catching feelings for the other person and complicating things.
This doesn’t mean you can’t still have fun with your friend with benefits from time to time, just keep in mind what your true motivation for the partnership in the first place.
“Charm is a glow that casts a most becoming light on others. It’s more valuable than beauty. You can resist beauty, but can’t resist charm.” If you have suffered heartbreaks repeatedly in your past relationships and have given up on the idea of finding true love like in the movies, then trust me, you’re not alone. Sometimes, what you need to feel good again is a little casual dating. Meeting new people, making awesome memories with them and having great experiences free from the hassles, emotional attachments, commitments, and messy breakups of relationships is the breath of fresh air your love life needs.
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First Impression Is Everything.
Andrew Grant once said, “You will never get a second chance to make a first impression.” It is everything because your first impression on a casual date gives you the ability to stir desire and interest. It is the opportunity you have to make your date really know you. It is your chance to charm your partner completely and be taken by your charisma and even good looks. Fascinate your date to fall for your persona, and if all goes well, it will mark the beginning of a very jaw-dropping, pants-ripping adventure. Sounds like fun, right? But it all depends on how strong your first impression is. There are hundreds of quotes about the first impression that intrigues me but the one I agree most with is…
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